NES fortunately I can answer no to all of the above.
This all started once we had kids. Before that, it was fuck bunny city. Then one kid came and bamm! sex just ended.
it got better a bit but then an other kid, and it got worse than before. And its been two years now, and things just don't show much sign of improvement.
I've settled for once a month and it really is starting to piss me off. I used to brag about how often I got it, now i bitch about lack of it. one extreme to the other.
Peter, i agree with what you said, but one of the problems, is, all that shit that women claim is an aphrodisiac...cleaning etc, I do already. Her work shecedule turned me into a modern day husband....dishes, laundry, diapers. well actually, thats' about it. I haven't picked up a toilet brush or vacuum in about 5 years. So i guess I could try that.
But I go the oppsite way when we hit the 30 day mark.
I don't a damn thing. If I aint getting blown or laid, I ain't doing a load of laundry or putting a single fork in the dishwasher.
I guess I'm stubborn, but it i shouldn't hit the 30 day mark.
NES, i actually tried to pretend I give a shit and watched one of her gay-ass ckick flicks last night. No help.
I guess I ultimately know the solution, but I needed to know if once a month was the norm in a marriage.
I sill say this...when this has come to a head (no pun intended) before, and I start acting like a dick, i end up getting laid. As a comedian Bill Hicks used to sing, "Chicks Dig Jerks"
No matter what Cosmo says, women respond more to being treated like crap.
